Financial Anarchist

I am a late 20s female from Canada. I work in Public Relations. This blog chronicals my journey from debt to extreme early retirement, where I will escape wage slavery and opt-out of becoming a pawn in the Corporate Monarchy. 2011 Goals: pay off debt, renovate house. 2012 Goals: rent out part of house, bank and invest $100k, semi-retire.

Don’t put me in that box, please.

A while ago, some TV exec started emailing me to go out for drinks. I met him when he spoke at a conference where at the Q&A portion, I politely disagreed with what he said. I accepted his invite to discuss it further over a beer. I’m almost 30 years old and therefore well on the look-out for anything that could happen a result of a seemingly innocent invitation.

Anyway, I mentioned some huge media news that had happened recently, that sent a certain soaring, increasing by 30% the day the news was announced. I emailed him immediately after reading the news. His response, “Oh yeah, I got word something was brewing and bought up a whole bunch of shares, quick money!” Thanks for letting me know, good friend who knows I’m into investing/wealth building. He later went on to say something to the effect of “Let’s say you and me go for a wild night on the town.”

Herein lies a problem I’ve encountered before. Older, successful makes not helping me in the way I want: financial guidance, advice, career mentorships, key introductions to people who could help me on my path, etc. Instead, they’re looking for a “wild night on the town,” or sometimes something even more shamelessly skeazy than that. 

I’d like to say that I’m advanced financially and doing okay career-wise for someone in their late 20s, thanks much in part from extracting, and squeezing out as much knowledge as I could from these men to whom women over 40 are invisible and women under 40 are nothing but play-fun to be kept in their pretty boxes, eyes and ears closed at how to get ahead and reach levels of success closely guarded by the old boys club.

Well, that won’t fly with me. I’m cute, I’m young, I’m a party girl, but I have my wits about me and one day I will be the one dangling that carrot in front of you.

The Hidden Factors That Prevent Your Business From Scaling
I was talking recently to an entrepreneur who said he was ready to scale his business. You could feel his desire to really make a big impact when he talked. He had great mentors, a nearly fail-safe strategy, and all the resources he needs and then some. But he wasn’t crossing the finish line. In many ways, he wasn’t crossing the start line, and as we worked together to make the path easier and easier for him, he seemed to get more and more stuck.

I see this quite often, and I’ve learned to look for the hidden factors that are stalling progress, because the surface reasons are almost never what’s really going on. No business ever failed to grow because the founder “Didn’t have enough time” or “Couldn’t find good people.”

If you ask an entrepreneur if they want to grow their business, most say yes. And yet so few do what it takes to scale, even when they have the solid strategy, capabilities, and resources they need.

Your Business Wants To Grow
You don’t have to push up on your business to grow it. It’s pushing up, all on its own, against the ceiling you’ve built for it like a sapling trying to break through the soil. There are three main hidden factors preventing the growth that your business would otherwise naturally experience. Some are more hidden than others, so see if you can really dig and find these factors in you.

First Factor – Deal With The Moral Dilemma
In order to scale, you must believe that every qualified person in the world needs your product or service. How would you feel if you woke up tomorrow and a million people bought your product or service? After you stop counting the money (and mentally spending it) start to really think about it. If you’re honest, there’s a part of you that might be terrified of this possibility. It is also common to feel embarrassed or even ashamed when considering this possibility. Perhaps the most common hidden factor that arrests growth is a secret disbelief in your offering.

Action Step: If you can’t answer that question with a resounding “yes”, start building the bridge from both shores. Meaning, do the work of believing more in your self, your work, and your work product – and also go to work changing and improving the product until you believe in them fully.

If you don’t take this action step, every sales conversation and every marketing piece presents a moral dilemma and a challenge to your integrity. Therefore, your level of success will be exactly the same as your level of comfort with being out of integrity.

Second Factor – Drop The Nut
Scientists observed fascinating behavior in certain monkeys. The monkeys would reach into a little hole in the side of a tree and grab a large nut inside the tree – too large to fit through the hole. The monkey was excited to find the nut – and wouldn’t let it go, essentially trapping the monkey by its own hand. Even when a predator would show up – the monkey more frantically tried to remove his hand, but would not drop the nut, even under threat of death.

Scaling a business is all about making trade offs. In fact, the larger you want to grow, the more severe the trade-offs must be. Some common trade-offs are:

Pick a narrow niche (good) and potentially lose non-niche customers (bad)

Invest in one brand (good) and let go of all the other product and personal brands (bad)

Choose a channel sales strategy (good) and lose direct control of customer relationships (bad)

Choose to compete on quality, not price (good) and lose customers who demand discounts (bad)

Choose to serve a premium market (good) and incur a much higher cost to deliver your products or services (bad)

It’s so common for companies to announce these kinds of decisions, but then fail to plan for or even allow for the consequences. I’ve frequently seen different vice presidents at the same company charged with trying to win both sides of the trade-off. To me, that’s just crazy. Surprisingly, it’s just as common for solo entrepreneurs to do the same thing. To grow your business, you have to make trade-offs, and you have to make sure that you spend your time and money in accordance with those trade-offs. Really give up on the (bad) side of the trade-off. If you don’t give that part up, you’ll be eaten by a predator with your hand stuck in a tree. Drop the nut!

Third Factor – I’ll Be Too Busy
I’ve created a number of 7-figure businesses (Millions in Revenue) both alone and with partners, and I’ve recently uncovered a hidden resistance that I’ve had to scaling to the 8-figure level (10s of Millions in Revenue). When I imagine being at the helm of a 10, 20, or 30 million dollar business, I imagine having to give up on important lifestyle choices that I’ve made.

I can take 4 to 5 days per week off work multiple times per month. I can take the month of December off. I can travel wherever I want, whenever I want for at least 6 weeks at a time, providing I can check in via the internet every week or two. Jennifer and I can “crawl in a hole” for days at a time with no financial consequence whenever we want prolonged periods of intimacy or isolation. I have the time and money I need to pursue my musical projects and explore hobbies like kite surfing. I can spend each evening and any weekend with my son, and I have plenty of energy to engage with him and play with him. These lifestyle choices are really important to me and in the past I imagined that growing my business by 10x would mean kissing all of it goodbye. No wonder my coaching practice stayed flat at $1 million per year for over a decade!

The Grass Is Always Browner
Recently, though I’ve noticed a shocking pattern. I’ve met a host of people with 6-Figure businesses that have resistance to growing their business by 10x for the same exact reason. They are afraid of losing freedom of choice. In fact, they are afraid of losing freedom that I experience more of then they do. I’ve also met a host of people with 8-figure businesses. Guess what? They experience more freedom to make lifestyle choices than I do.

But it doesn’t stop there. Jennifer and I were just in NY with some people who have created $100 Million businesses. And they experience the same freedom of lifestyle. That shocked me. This pattern goes all the way up to Richard Branson, who has plenty of time for family, love, exercise, philanthropy, hobbies, parties, travel, fun, and everything a person could want – even as he commands an 11-figure brand with over 300 companies.

Two Pursuits
It turns out, creating the lifestyle you want is a skill all in itself. Some people master it, and most don’t. It has nothing to do with the scale of the businesses they create and manage. If you want to protect your lifestyle, notice whether you are protecting a lifestyle you have or a lifestyle you’d like to have.

Action Step: If you are afraid of losing a lifestyle you actually have. Don’t be afraid. Be cautious and deliberate and you can continue to scale your business without giving up on your lifestyle. You are an expert and using your resources to create the lifestyle you want, and growing your business will simply give you more resources to do this. Find mentors and friends who have done it. They may be hard to find, but they are out there. Check in with yourself every few months and make sure you are still on track from both a business growth and a lifestyle perspective.

If you’re afraid of losing a lifestyle you’d like to have, then stop and think about that for a moment. You are sacrificing success for fear of losing something you don’t have. And then start to look at your ability to make choices that benefit yourself. Struggle and hard work are not necessary ingredients of success. They are totally elective practices.

You Were Born To Play A Bigger Game
This is not meant to be an exhaustive list of all the roadblocks you might experience on the way to becoming the next Richard Branson, but I do hope it’s given you a window into factors that may be playing a key role in your ability to grow your business and make the biggest impact you can on the planet.

I believe in you and the work you do. I want it to reach the widest audience possible, and I want you to do the work that you need to do to make sure that the promises you make in your offers and the quality of the results you produce meet your highest standards of integrity.

If a light bulb went off for you when reading this article, send it to the entrepreneurs you admire most. Tweet about it and share it on facebook. And as always, ask any question you want in the comment section below.

May 2012 Income

1,800 j*b

The Six Enemies of Greatness (and Happiness)

You want to get rich in order that you may eat, drink, and be merry when it is time to do these things; in order that you may surround yourself with beautiful things, see distant lands, feed your mind, and develop your intellect; in order that you may love men and do kind things, and be able to play a good part in helping the world to find truth.

The Science of Getting Rich

This pretty much sums up my reasons.

Canadian 30-year-olds are screwed.

I basically agree with everything he says.

May 2012 Spending

May 1 - $36 drinks

May 1 - $20 taxi (okay, this is getting ridiculous)

May 2 - $3.50 lunch

May 2 - $160 drinks, dinner, bday present for a friend (long story, remind me to reiterate my “poor artists friends” rant…)

May 4 - $24 groceries

May 4 - $40 drinks

May 4 - $1.50 tea

May 4 - $8 taxi

May 5 - $5 tea, snacks

May 5 - $8 groceries

May 6 - $20 yoga mat

May 6 - $10 wine

May 7 - $7 breakfast

May 8 - $10 taxi

May 8 - $10 groceries

May 8 - $27 personal care (this will last me to the end of summer)

May 8 - $30 medical/medication

May 9 - $70 wine making, 28 bottles worth. I’m going to make white wine, since I have some red that’s fermenting. I should be good for wine (and adult gifts!) for the rest of the year.

May 9 - $120 personal/medical/health related

May 10 - $6 lunch

May 10 - $37 groceries

May 10 - $25 book

May 10 - $7 dining out

May 11 - $7 breakfast

May 11 - $70 clothing

May 11 - $210 housing expenses (cable/internet/gas/water)

May 11 - $500 my share of mortgage

The evils of consumerism as represented by a rain boot.

Today a friend of mine, “Liz,” tweeted a photo of a pair of Burberry rain boots she had recently purchased. She bought a pair for herself, her husband, and their children. She most likely dropped over a grand on these boots. Note that she does not work for her living, her husband supports them on his investment banker salary.

Disclaimer: the husband is an ex of mine from college. It took me YEARS to get over the sour grapes of not only our break up, and his getting together with my girl friend, but also his career trajectory and 6 figure salary, which I’m sure is in the $250k/year area. Looking back, they are best suited to each other, I am, and was, way too “out there” for hubby. Liz makes a great, loyal wife.

Anyhoo, another friend of mine, “Tom” is a shoe designer. He designs for at least two major chain stores and goes to China four times a year to visit shoe factories. On his last trip, he came back with a pair of those Burberry boots. How much did he pay for them, factory direct? $20. And yes, those are the real boots, not fake. They retail for over $225. Disgusted yet? 

It gets even better: the boots are made in the SAME factory as the shoes from a hugely popular chain of discount superstores. 

This is a fact. 

Naturally, I couldn’t resist pointing this out to her in my retweeting. Gloating about squandering away your husband’s salary, the one he works 100 hours a week to make, leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Especially when they couldn’t afford to buy a house downtown (they currently own an apartment) on said six figure salary. On a fraction of that, I managed to purchase a house just outside the downtown core, and will be looking at a condo for myself at the end of the year (just waiting and seeing about that pesky over-inflated housing market). Why? Because I don’t purchase items with a 1000% mark-up. 

I love looking through Liz’s online photo albums of their exotic and wonderful family vacations, but I can’t stand rampant greed and consumerism. 

Call me judgemental, I call it financially irresponsible.

Luxury in Economy Class Flights

I’ve never travelled first class. One time, when I was 16, 3 students got bumped to first class and were greeted to a curtained off area with two rows of seats, with a single aisle down the middle and rows of two gigantic chairs on either side. It was only a city-hopper plane traveling a 2 hour distance, but still, the glee on their faces as they were treated to a glass of champagne, happier flight attendants and leg room was unforgettable. I have to admit I was delighted for them, it was a little thrill, and at that age, I was so enthralled with my first trip off the continent, that I didn’t notice how much flying actually sucked.

In the past year I’ve travelled out of the country four times. Always economy. What separates a miserable from an okay experience for me:

-Bringing an epic book for the way there and the way back. I was so sucked into the Stieg Larsson books, I blocked out everything else during one travel adventure.

-Pack as light as you possibly can. For a 2 week trip, I ca fit all I need into a large, carry on suitcase or duffle back.

-Sleep aid? Such as a sleeping pill, Nyquil, or packets of Neocitrine which come powdered form in packets that you can easily bring on the plan.

-I’ve never tried a sleep mask, do those work?

-Bring a long, thin, bathrobe-esque sweater that doubles as a blanket or a shawl.

-Bring slipper-boots, or sock-slippers: you know, those things that are a cross between slippers and socks.

-Fully charged iPhone or iPod touch with some movies or TV shows downloaded.

-Put aside $30 each flight and treat yourself to a glass of red wine on the flight and a glass of beer at the airport bar.

-Some airports in the States, I cannot for the life of me find the bar, but at Miami and North Carolina’s airports the bars are great. Particularly in North Carolina, Southern business men were chatty, friendly and polite and not hesitant to buy a drink to the odd, spirited dark girl from Canada who’s travelling by herself to Central America.

To be honest, I’m afraid of going first-class for the first time because if I do when I can’t always afford it, my entire flight experience from there on until I can afford it will be ruined. This has already happened to me in other situations, so now I avoid some luxuries until I can have them consistently. So in the mean time, the above tips really go a long way towards a less painless flight.

April 2012 Income

$1,540 j*b

$423 Side Hustle #1

$260 Side Hustle #1 tips

$1,540 j*b

$300 Side Huste #1

$350 Side Hustle #1 tips

$630 Side Hustle #3 (freelancing- ugh, $20 went to Paypal fees…next time I’m passing that cost on to the client)